Hey, look! A thing.

I’m up to talk in confidence if you want, Anon. I’m genderqueer myself (I also ID as bigender). 

And it’s not all about passing. I couldn’t buy binders or anything while I was still at home with my parents, so for years I couldn’t pass. But just knowing that I understood that part of myself helped a lot. 

You don’t have to be stick-thin to pass, anyway. I’ve even had friends comment on the fact that my big bum is never going to pass for a boy’s. And yet I’ve passed in the street, at clubs, with those same friends deliberately saying, “she’s with us” so that the bouncer would click. But he didn’t. 

Good luck whatever you decide to do. I’m here if you need an ear. 

(Source: queersecrets)